“I want to know how to prevent a break-up based on the reason and the psychology of men who tell me that he want to end living together.”
There might be many women who are worried like this.
When your partner tells you that he no longer wants to live together, depending on the reason, but you may not have to break up.
Also, even if he decides to leave, depending on your actions, there is a chance to get back together. To do so, you need to leave from your partner temporarily to calm down and attract him in a new way.
So, in this article, we explain the following.
・The psychology of men wanting to end living together
・How to prevent a break-up based on the psychology of men
・Things you need to think before you take action
・Key points for getting back together after ending living together
・Recommended temporary space/house after break up
Please refer to this article and let’s think about how to prevent a break-up due to the end of living together.
What is the psychology of men wanting to end living together? What are the main reasons?
First, the psychology of men wanting to end living together is as follows.
[Physical・Economical Reason]
・He has to live in a different prefecture due to a job transfer
・He cannot pay rent since he quit his job
・He felt trapped in living with others
[Psychological Reason]
・He started to see you as a family, rather than a girlfriend
・He lost his confidence by feeling he is not trusted by you
・He was disillusioned because you were not what he expected you to be
・He felt he has nowhere to go
・He started seeing another woman
・He wanted to distance you and reevaluate the relationship
・He no longer cannot stand being with you
It’s not necessary to break up for physical and economic reasons. It doesn’t mean he no longer likes you, but it just becomes difficult to live together.
On the contrary, psychological reasons suggest the end of a relationship. Especially, “He started seeing another woman” and “He no longer cannot stand being with you” means your partner feels he cannot take it anymore.
You might be shocked when your partner tells you, “I want to end living together.”
However, you might prevent a break-up by thinking about how to deal with your partner based on his mental and reasons. We will explain in more detail in next.
How to prevent a break-up with your partner who tells you the end of living together
When your partner tells you that he wants to end living together, we recommend you take the following actions.
・Accept his opinion and feeling first before you try to convince him forcibly
・Listen to the reason why he wants to end living together
・Create a time period of about a month to clear your mind and organize your thoughts
First, please accept your partner’s feelings and opinions.
When your partner tells you he wants to end living together, his will is pretty strong. It develops his feeling of dislike if you keep asking him why, so we recommend you to calm down and talk with him.
Please ask him the reason once he calms down. Since you accept his feeling once, he may feel ok to talk with you honestly.
Based on his reason, please organize your thoughts. It may take about a month to calm down and clear your mind. It takes about a month in case of moving out, so please settle yourself down during the time period.
Clearing your mind and organizing your thoughts might help you prevent a break-up and increase the possibility of getting back together. We will explain in more detail in next.
Things women need to think to prevent ending living together and a break-up
We recommend women to think the following to prevent a break-up.
・Write down your flaws
・Think of how to solve the problem between you and your partner and to improve your flaws
・Think of an ideal woman that your partner has in his mind
First, let’s write down your flaws and things you may need to improve. Things that your partner told you when you were in a relationship can be tips.
Also, “Think of an ideal woman that your partner has in his mind” sounds a bit hard, but it actually might be “you” before you started dating with him. It’s because he liked you before you started dating.
Even if you don’t know his ideal woman, the past and history can give you a hint, so try to remember it again.
If this does not change your partner’s decision, please accept him and get ready to move on.
However, even if you accept a break-up, it’s still possible to get back together. We will explain in more detail in next.
Steps for getting back together with your partner who wants to end living together
We recommend you to take the following steps if you want to get back together with your partner who you used to live together.
- Don’t contact him for a few months ~ a half-year
- Think and Improve your flaws
- Building your self-confidence and contact him again
As we told you, most likely, your partner has a feeling of dislike right after the end of living together. You had better refrain from contacting him and should focus on self-improvement.
By contacting him once after you build self-confidence, there is a high possibility that your partner wants to get back with you again.
We will explain in more detail in next, taking into account the psychology of men.
Men change their minds after taking some time? Let’s wait for three months first
Do you know that men tend to change their minds after taking some time?
When a person breaks up his/her partner, women experience a peak of sadness for about a month right after a break-up. On the contrary, men experience relief and a sense of freedom right after a break-up and rarely feel sadness.
And after a few months, women start moving on, and men start feeling sad and strange about a life without a partner.
It is easier for your feelings to be accepted if you communicate with your partner when he starts feeling lonely and uncomfortable.
Even though they break up, there are many couples that have gone through the steps above to get back together and even get married.
First, little by little, let’s accept the fact that your partner wants to end living together. By doing so, the future will be even more fun than the present.
A sharehouse is recommended as a temporally place to live until the end of living together
We introduced how to prevent a break-up after the end of living together and the steps for getting back together so far, but in some cases, you and your partner may decide to give each other some time before the end of living together.
In that case, we recommend a sharehouse as a temporary place to live.
The reasons are:
・Easy to pass the tenant screening, and it won’t take time to move in
・Not necessary to buy new furniture and home appliances and save the cost of moving
・Feel less lonely through the interaction and communication with other residents
Especially through the interaction and communication with other residents, you might be able to get over your ex.
Summary: Let’s think about how to prevent a break-up as you understand the psychology of men when you may need to end living together with your partner
In this article, we explained how to prevent a break-up based on the psychology of men wanting to end living together.
To sum up, we recommend you the following actions when you are told that your partner no longer wants to live together.
・Accept his opinion and feeling first before you try to convince him forcibly
・Listen to the reason why he wants to end living together
・Create a time period of about a month to clear your mind and organize your thoughts
Also, we told you the following as the things that women may need to think about during the time period.
・Write down your flaws
・Think of how to solve the problem between you and your partner and to improve your flaws
・Think of an ideal woman that your partner has in his mind
By getting involved again while improving your own bad flaws, there are many couples that have prevented a break-up and got back together.
Also, moving to a sharehouse is recommended to settle your own nerve and feeling! Not only you can save the cost of furniture and home appliances, but also you can get over your ex through the interaction and communication with other residents in a sharehouse.
Please take your time and think about your relationship as referring to this article.
By the way, even if you and your partner decided to end living together, you can demand consolation money in some cases, such as you two are married.
